Can everybody attain their success in their single effort? or in single instance?
You can get answer to this question if you read or heard the bio-graphy of some successful peoples.

Definitely no body would have attained their success in their first effort or attempt.
In real life you may see numerous popular personalities in cinema or in the sports field,etc.

It is common to see the peak of any favorite artist or sports personality.Today we are able to see their continuous box office hits,medals and awards.
But it may not be possible for most of us,the struggles they paid to attain this continuous box office hits,medals,and awards.

Even some artists have told in their bio-graphy that the director who refused chances or
assignment in the entry stage,is now waiting for years together for their call sheet.

They would have never minded about their image,health,working hours,because their only aim at
that time of entry would be that they should got recognition in the cinema industry.

Today thousands and thousands of fans are waiting to see their glimpse for a
few seconds and hundreds of directors are waiting for their call sheet to their next film.
Companies are showing their face in the small screen and earning millions of dollars as profit.

They come to this present stage only after paying some hefty things like hard work,dedication,sincerity,etc.

They didn’t come to this stage in all of a sudden.

They come to this stage after falling down many times.But they raised again and walked towards their dream.

You want to go to a multi storied building.It was some 24 storied building.You have to go to 24th storey.Can you go to that 24th storey by pulling yourself straight to that 24 th storey.

Definitely you can't.You have to cross the steps in between the 24th storey building.May be you can go fast by skipping some one or two steps.But it is difficult to skip more than that.

You may argue,why should I go by foot when I can go in lift.

Even the lift can pass one by one storey only and it cannot go straight to 24th storey.

When We are following these principles for the impossible and impracticable things in our routine life,we have to use these principles when we want to achieve success.

It is natural that most of the peoples wanted to get their success in one instance or one attempt or one effort.

There is one proverb in Tamil,one of the Indian oldest language.It says "Poruthar Boomi Alwar".It means those who have much patience will be the king of the world one day.

There may be only one in thousand that the success may come in a single effort.But let us talk
about the practical happening.

We must all aware that the success got in one single effort will have only a short span of life.Because getting success without any strain or struggle cannot last long.

You may not have the chances of learning lessons and techniques to refine your self or in the field of profession you relate when you got your success in a single instance.

The success you get after prolonged efforts,strains,experiences will alone last for ever.
It is permanent.

It teaches you lesson,knowledge,techniques,etc

You will gain Himalayan strength,knowledge,techniques etc.,and you will have the power to keep up that success.

Experiences are nothing but failures.You can get these experiences only out of your failures.There is no other ways and means in this world to get these experiences.

Even the world best teacher cannot teach you,what an experience teaches you.

Everybody should be lucky enough to get failures.You should not panic about the failure.

You must get rid of the fear of failures.

You should think that failure is your well wisher.

When you get rid of the fear of failures the "success" will be ready to accompany you for your journey towards the peak.

At the same time if a person who got his/her success in a single effort,h/she cannot tolerate even a single failure.

H/she will be soon vanished from the scene after that single failure.H/she won't have the courage to adjust him/herself for that single failure.

But the person who wants to climb the peak of success never mind about the failures,abuses,while passing through that journey.His/her only aim will be to clinch the victory at the peak.

Only failures can create so many geniuses in this world.When that genius reveals his/her failures to the world,those failures inspire and attract so many souls and create so many geniuses in this world.
Failure and success are law of nature.

It is H/She picturise the failure as undesirable and success as desirable.

But failure should be picturised as desirable with due respect because it teach us many lessons even a world best university cannot teach.

So let us invite failure,get rid of the fear of failure,think failure as our friend,march towards the peak of success till we clinch the victory with the lesson we learned out of failures.

I've learned - That you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.

I've learned - that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care back.

I've learned - that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.

I've learned - that it's not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts.

I've learned - that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes. After that, you'd better know something.

I've learned - that it's not what happens to people that's important. It's what they do about it.

I've learned - that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.

I've learned - that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.

I've learned - that either you control your attitude or it controls you.

I've learned - that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place.

I've learned - that learning to forgive takes practice.

I've learned - that money is a lousy way of keeping score.
                         
I've learned - that sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.

I've learned - that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.

I've learned - that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many years you've lived.

I've learned - that you should never tell a child their dreams are unlikely or outlandish. Few things are more humiliating, and what a tragedy it would be if they believed you.

I've learned - that no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.

I've learned - that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others.

Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.

I've learned - that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief.

l've learned - that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other and just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.

I've learned - that sometimes you have to put the individual ahead of their actions.

I've learned - that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.

I've learned - that no matter how you try to protect your children, they will eventually get hurt and you will hurt in the process.

I've learned - that there are many ways of falling and staying in love.

I've learned - that your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you.

I've learned - that even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.

I've learned - that writing, as well as talking, can ease emotional pains.

I've learned - that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.

I've learned - that the people you care most about in life are taken from you too soon.